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I guess I am what I would term a "normal" guy. I am an adult. I am not flawless. I am completely self-sufficient. Don't need your money, or for you to support me. I am financially secure. But I'd certainly love to have a coffee, lunch or dinner companion. More is always possible. I just don't wish to get ahead of myself (or you).

What you see is what you get. I won't/can't play head games, and won't tolerate them either. I try very hard too be courteous and considerate to everyone because I was raised that way, and because I believe that life is tough enough without me making it any tougher for others. I am told I am very passionate, both physically and emotionally. It would certainly be nice if you were similar. I am considered intelligent and articulate, but I don't expect a Harvard scholar! lol I enjoy a good conversation. Maybe I am odd, but while physical appearance is certainly part of the magic that attracts two people, I believe that a real, honest, and open conversation can create a bond that brings them together and connects them. I am old enough and have lived hard enough to be comfortable in my own skin, which is probably a good thing since it's all I have! That said, I am not hardened to life.

I have a variety of interests including motorcycling, bicycling, the outdoors, hiking, travel, reading, movies, dinners out, and much more. I am a published photographer, and writer (NOT famous though. Sorry!) I love animals ... particularly big dogs (especially Golden Retrievers, but don't have one now). I am comfortable in blue jeans, or suits and ties. I can mix and work with almost anyone. All-in-all, I am a pretty flexible guy.

In the interest of transparency, I am a widower after having been married to a wonderful woman for a long time. We had our problems and challenges, but we were best friends and enjoyed each others company. I lost my friend, my wise counsel, and the one person I could trust absolutely and without any reservation. As you might imagine, I value those qualities. I am NOT looking for a replacement. You can't do that for me and I don't expect that. I would like to meet someone who has the ability to help me smile. I would like to believe that there is something special left for my life, and also someone special who might share it with me?

I am not intimidated by bright and motivated professional women. I don't know exactly who I am looking for. I suppose I'll know when I meet her? The question is could it be you? I'd hate to miss the opportunity to find out. If you love to live life, then you should drop me a note. There's no obligation and no expectation, so you really have nothing to lose ... and possibly everything to gain.

IF, and I say IF you wish to learn more, you may ask me any question and I will answer it as honestly as I am able.

I have never smoked cigarettes, am not much of a serious drinker (not against it, just don't take the time). I am not verbally or physically abusive, and I won't tolerate it from others. I honestly like most people. I love to laugh and to make others laugh as well. I have always liked life, and living it fully.

Conversation is cheap, and I'll happily buy the coffee. Again, there is no obligation. I take "not interested" like an adult! Regardless, thanks for reading all this! Bottom line is ... drop me a note! You can always decide we 're not a match, but you won't know what you might be missing if you don't at least talk. Hope you'll take a moment to say hey!

:-)

Ram

Gemiddeld

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Blauw

Blank

Weduwe

Nee

Niet Zeker

Glimlach

Iets Anders

Halfblond

Ja

MBO

Voltijd

Wetenschap

Security Consultant & Educator

Tussen de €100.000 en €150.000

Alleen

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Gewoon

Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Gezellig

Fitness, Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Muziek, Tv, Internet, Eten, Fotografie, Theater, Reizen, Koken, Tuinieren, Auto's, Kamperen, Vissen / Jagen, Computers

Met Vrienden zijn, Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Relaxen, Een boek lezen, Tv, Naar een museum gaan

Wow ... good question. I guess for a FIRST date, I would lean toward something low-key and non-threatening. Something where both of us could/would be comfortable. A nice casual dinner out is always pretty safe. If there's a connection, then the date can always be extended.

Touring the country on a motorcycle. Would like to travel to Australia, Africa and Russia.

Vriendelijk, Iemand die ze willen zijn

Christelijk

My goal is to make life easier for others. There is so damn much pain others are carrying, I try very hard to make life a little bit easier for others. Beyond that, to share the remainder of my life with someone I care for and about.

Camp, Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek

Nieuws, Komedies, Films, Herhalingen

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Drama, Animatie, Thriller

Country, Rock, Metal, Pop, Klassiek, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, New Age, Dance, Soul

Nieuws, Autobiografie, Biografie, Business, Klassiek , Fantasy, Fictie, Gezondheid, Geschiedenis, Humor, Educatief, Mysterie, Natuur, Filosofie, Politiek, Wetenschappelijk, Natuurwetenschap, Science Fiction, Sport

Seriously? Spending time with the woman I care for. Then I can be doing pretty much anything, and be happy about it. I like mild to wild, but all are better when shared.

Intelligentie, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Empathie, Moed, Eigenaardigheden, Spontaniteit, Macht, Gevatheid, Bedachtzaamheid

Hardest thing to answer! I guess I want to meet someone who "gets it." Who understands life and wants to live it fully. Honesty is very important. I am extremely supportive, however I don't want to spend the rest of my life acting as live-in counselor. I want someone who wants to share life as much as I do. Please, just be real!!!

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid